Celebrating A Father

Last weekend while we were camping,  I observed our children interact with Alex in way that seemed to define who they are as kids and who Alex is as a father.  Their individual connection with Alex was uniquely different, but true to their personalities.  In a span of about 25 minutes the above scenes took place.  Max began the mini marathon for daddy's attention.  Serious and passionate about his topic, he drew Alex in immediately, who listened very closely.  Alex responded in way that persuaded Max to think further and deeper about his ideas.  Zoe, who was feeling left out, stepped in for some hugs and kisses, not be [happily] denied either.  I can't remember what she and Alex talked about, but there were lots of smiles and reassurances that her concerns were just as important. Ben soon felt the urge to tell a story about something he did earlier in the day and, with lots of jumping, touching and funny face making,  he was able to get his message across as well.  While all this was going on, Alex was fully engaged with all of them sporting loving eyes and happy smiles.  
 

To see all them interact so seamlessly with their father is a testament to the love and respect they feel for him.  Allowing each one of them to be who there are and to navigate among their differences lovingly and patiently, is one of the many reasons I love and value my husband so very much.  

Happy Father's Day, Alex!

A Few Friday Favorites

1.  I love a round cutting board (especially one with a brass handle).

2. This reclaimed teak rocker personifies the perfect balance between modern and classic designs.

3.  A two-tone draped jumpsuit to wear at [just about] any summer gathering. 

4.  Simple and elegant this bedroom beckons all nappers.

5. A mixed metal bracelet to wear on its own or combined with others you already own. 

6.  For the brass obsessed (as in me), these pencil sharpeners.  

7.  The Hitchhiker Clog by Rachel Comey (someday I'll get my feet into a pair of her shoes). 

8. With the fleeting fig season upon us, this smoothie is right up my taste buds' alley.  

Out And About: Big Sur Roadhouse

The school year ended last Thursday and, for what has now become a family tradition, we headed for Big Sur on the following morning. We had a campsite reserved for three nights along a riverbank.  It allowed for endless hours of rock skipping, crayfish catching, reading and just pure chilling.   Although we don't mind 'roughing it' for our accommodations, we do treat ourselves to a occasional night or morning out. We have our favorite spots, but this time around we decided to give Big Sur Roadhouse a try for an early morning breakfast.   It didn't disappoint.  We had delicious lattes, hot chocolates, house made bagels and the best scrambled eggs!  All this in an amazingly styled space designed by Steve Justrich. The Roadhouse is a combination of rustic elegance and modern accents. Graphic art, colorful tiles, a mix of wood grains and lots of botanicals make for a cool and comfortable refuge from one too many nights in a tent. Take and look and check out just how good Max looked in the place.

10 Inspiring Outdoor Spaces And Tips On How To Create Your Own

Now that warmer temperatures are upon us, it's time to work on outdoor spaces that are as comfortable and inviting as your indoors are.  Sharing a few of my favorites:  some created for entertaining summer gatherings and others designed for moments of solitude.  Ideally, wouldn't it be great to have both?!  

Check them out and take a look below for tips on creating your own:  

1. Define your outdoor space and decorate it as you would your indoor space.  Strive to make the two blend and be cohesive.

2.  Create privacy with large plants, billowing curtains or natural screens.

2.  Add lighting.  It can consists of candles, solar or electric lights.

3.  Have plenty of comfortable seating for guests.  Provide pretty cushions, pillows, etc.  Keep cozy throws handy for those chilly nights.

4.  Bring your indoor plants outside.  Mix them with classic annuals or exotic perennials to add interest and depth to your container garden.  

5.  Don't over accessorize with garden sculptures and tchotkes.  In nature, less is definitely more.

6.  Look for unique garden furniture on Craigslist and/or garage, yard sales and flea markets.  Keep in mind that sometimes indoor furniture also works well outdoors.

7.  Forego the fire pit for a full on fireplace. 

8.  Add a swing if that is a possibility.  Children and adults alike get enjoyment out of them.

9.  Paint and exterior door a funky color to liven things up.

10.   Have designated plates and glasses for outdoor use.  I keep a basket stocked with napkins, flatware, dishes and candles.  When that spontaneous BBQ springs out of nowhere, I'm quasi ready.  Hmmm, maybe I should add a flask or two of G&Ts to it...

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Cucumber Gin And Tonics

I've always been a fan of a Gin & Tonic, but recently my preference for this classic has reached a new high.  The addition of aromatic garnishes, high end tonic water and crisp cucumbers have taken my liking of this drink to a whole other level.  Inspired by a recipe from a local restaurant my cocktail of choice has become more gourmet like, and even more satisfying. During a recent gathering at our home, I set up a G & T fixings area, so that our guests could design their own libations. Take a look below for ingredients and ideas on how to create a DIY cocktail for your next summer party.

Ingredients:

gin of choice (my personal favorite is Hendricks), limes, bay leaves, juniper berries, Persian cucumbers, St. Germain, tonic water and ice.

Set Up:

on a large cutting board or platter, place a small bowl of juniper berries, sliced and/or halved limes (for garnish and juice), bay leaves and cucumber spears.  Have an ice bucket readily available and all the bar tools necessary for measuring, juicing and stirring.  I used chop sticks as stirrers.

Directions:

add half a glass of ice,  pour the desired amount of gin, top with tonic and a slash of St. Germain.  Add the juice of half a lime and rub the remainder over the glass rim.  Garnish with juniper berries, a bay leaf (fold it in half to release its scent) and a cucumber spear or two.

The beauty of mixing one's own cocktail is that one is in control on how strong or weak to make it.  Designated drivers and minors can create their own non-alcoholic drinks with exactly the same ingredients (foregoing the gin,of course). Sip and enjoy!